Things that are unfixable in a relationship

By Miss Kes

Thursday, October 18, 2018

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There is no perfect potion to everlasting love and joy in a relationship. There are things that occur that can be addressed and with the right assistance healed, and then there are some things that no matter how many times you try to fix them, they break even more apart.

What are some of these things that are unfixable in a relationship?


Trust is extremely important in relationships. Once it is broken, it will never be the same. There are some women who forgive and try to make it work but reality is, the trust is broken so things can just never be like they were before. And sometimes in the long run they will regret that they stayed and tried to make it work.

Disappearance after a disagreement

An argument doesn't equate to an unhealthy relationship and it's not a cue to make a run for it. Blocking your partner from communicating with you or refusing to take your partner's calls because of a feud is immature and petty. The best way to handle a problem is to face the problem.

Running from the problem is only telling the other person involved that you cannot be trusted because once there is a challenge you are out of the battle.

Physical abuse

You can say sorry a million times, but once you throw the first hit it tells the person that you clearly don't care about their life and you have no love for them. Love doesn't hurt, so once you have a partner doing this to you, the love is non-existent.

Intentional hurtful words followed by actions

You cannot erase what you say and what you do, so if you say things in the heat of the moment and then later expect your partner to pretend that nothing was said, you are living in denial.

Spoken words and actions tell a person all they need to know about you as a person. That is why it is extremely important for you to to think before you speak and avoid speaking when angry because once the words are said, they cannot be erased.

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